The reality today is that divorce happens to Christians too. The only way to avoid it is to work on your marriage!
God hates divorce AND he also hates to see one person ruin another person's life simply because that is not the purpose we are here to fulfill.
Marriage is not meant to ruin each other's lives but to build each other up. Always keep that in mind.
And everyone must take responsibility in the marriage. You cannot be in a marriage, you never have time to pray and study God's word together, serve him together, you never have time for your marriage after work or church, you never go on dates, you never do weekend gateways just the two of you, you are never involved in what your husband or wife is doing with their life, you are literally not putting in the work, you even cheat and you don't take responsibility for your actions to make the changes God is requiring from you so the marriage will flourish! Instead you keep pointing fingers at the other person and making them responsible for your own failures in the marriage.
Each one must take responsibility for their own actions and behaviours if that positive change is going to happen. You look at yourself and hear through prayer what God is asking you to change.
Marriage ⚭ is two people becoming one, see Mark 10:8 in the bible. So why do we expect it to work when one person alone is putting in the work?
As long as you refuse to work on your marriage and you want to do your own thing (you know is not working) your own way, you will not experience marriage as God intended it to be. It is supposed to be something beautiful.
May God through the Holy Spirit lead us to understand how serious marriage is. He is the God of second chances. Snap.
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