You’re responsible for your own emotional reactions, but not for the person’s next to you.
You have the power to choose what you feel, but you can’t instill feelings in other people.
Your job is to the best version of yourself, and in that case - people who aren’t aligned with you - will disappear from your life. It may be hard, it may be painful, but it’s necessary for you.
In the meantime, you become wiser, you build your self-worth. You create the best possible relationship with yourself. Feeling whole. Feeling good.
In this very state, you can attract a person you desire. It’s gonna be the most beautiful thing ever! You’ll be meeting them deeply.