Hi! I'm just over here rocking a cute skirt and badass attitude!!! 💋💪🙌 I used to measure my life and happiness against how popular I was, how many people knew me and "liked' me. I gave too much of my personal life away and was too quick to trust, therefore too easy to hurt and be hurt. Living like that bred insecurity, negative thoughts and therefore destructive behaviour. It damaged, but it has also enforced and driven the most positive changes in myself, and my life.
I now measure my happiness against how I spend my time, against what I am driving for and focusing on, my values, my morals, against the small, but exceptionally valuable group of people in my life, how they see me and how most importantly, I see myself. I no longer seek to be liked by anyone and everyone, especially for being somone that I don't want to be, or by people that I don't wish to associate with. I'm not afraid to go my own way, or be disliked for it. I've learnt you can still be a good person and not be liked, sometimes you do make mistakes, and sometimes people have their reasons, often nothing to do with you, but their own demons yet to tackle.
I now seek a simple, authentic, honest, positive and somewhat 'quiet' life, where I constantly grow and flourish as a person and mother 🥰✊ #yoga #wanderlust #swimming #strength #strong #vegan #vegans #travel #traveler #travels #traveling #travelling